To the Ehrlich family,
My heart, and the hearts of the entire Whinnem family here in Natick, go out to you during this incredibly difficult time. Words are impossible when trying to make sense of such a loss.
It had been many years since I've seen Jim. But my memories of growing up with your family right around the corner remain vivid. Your home was the frequent playground for a bunch of us, and countless games of street hockey and basketball were played in your driveway. While Steve and I were close, and in the same class, Jim was always a part of the fun. Even as a youngster, he was comical, at ease with anyone around him, and had a quiet confidence in who he was. He and I shared numerous laughs growing up, idolized some of the same athletes, and found common ground in so many areas. I can never remember having a disagreement with him (or any of the Ehrlich's) that wasn't solved with a smile and a joke within minutes – not always an easy accomplishment when you're kids.
It is clear to see by reading the memories and thoughts so lovingly displayed on this page, that Jimmy had indeed grown into the man that I always thought he would, and then some. I have been moved by his love for family, friends, God, and every day that he had, even when he found out what was ahead. I am proud to say that I knew such an individual, even if it was only when we were kids. It is people like Jim that make us all want to be a little better in our own lives each day.
In my work as a sports associate producer, I often work with ESPN. This week the network is celebrating "Jimmy V Week", a yearly tribute to Jim Valvano, the former North Carolina State basketball coach, and his valiant fight against cancer 15 years ago. Last night they replayed his remarkable and famous speech at the ESPY Awards in 1993, shortly before his passing. As I listened to the end of that speech, and I remembered reading on these pages how strong and philosophical Jim was when his own cancer was diagnosed, I couldn't help but think that these words were as appropriate for him as they were for Coach Valvano.
Coach Valvano said… "Cancer can take away my physical abilities. It cannot touch my mind. It cannot touch my heart. And it cannot touch my soul. And those three things are going to carry on forever"
God Speed Jimmy… You clearly touched so many in your life. Even some from way back in the day who won't forget the times we shared.
Peace,
Russ Whinnem
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